No.74

人的温柔分两种：

一种是被亲情友情爱情宠溺出来的温柔

而另一种则是经历过世事以后不得已的温柔 希望你是前者而非后者

There are two kinds of gentleness:One is the tenderness spoiled by family, friendship and loveAnd the other is the tenderness after experiencing the world. I hope you are the former, not the latter

在理想与现实纠缠不清的日子里，身边的人和最初的理想陪着我们跌跌撞撞一路踉跄。生活赐予我们的是日积月累下来的沉稳内敛，还有遍体鳞伤才学会的知足珍惜

In the days when ideals and reality are intertwined, people around us and the original ideals accompany us stumbling all the way. What life has given us is the steadiness and introspection accumulated over the years, and the contentment and treasure learned only after being bruised all over

外表看上去光鲜亮丽的人其实都是夜里哭泣的可怜虫罢了，如果可以，愿你们都平凡安稳的度过这一生，至少平凡的人生最多是抱怨，不会日夜徘徊在绝望的边缘，一个不注意也许就会踏入无边的黑暗。痛苦不堪，却又无能为力。

People who look bright and beautiful in appearance are actually poor people who cry at night. If you can, I wish you all to spend your life in an ordinary and stable way. At least, ordinary life is mostly about complaining, not wandering on the edge of despair day and night. If you don't pay attention, you may step into the boundless darkness. I'm miserable, but I can't help it.

你明知生活充满困难和不易，你也知道生活待你并不温柔，可是如果你愿意去面对它，就一定不会被它左右

You know that life is full of difficulties and difficulties, and you also know that life is not gentle to you, but if you are willing to face it, you will not be influenced by it