No.38

假如过去的一切都没有发生，我们就不会成为现在的自己。

If everything had not happened in the past, we would not be who we are now.

这世间没有无缘无故的相遇，也不存在全然错误的错过。每个人的相遇和离开都会留下一些什么的。

There is no unprovoked encounter in this world, and there is no completely wrong miss. Everyone's meeting and leaving will leave something behind.

思考生活的意义并不能帮我们改变世界，但是可以帮我们改变自己。

Thinking about the meaning of life can't help us change the world, but it can help us change ourselves.

生活上依赖别人，又希望得到别人尊重，那是没有可能的事。

It is impossible to rely on others in life and hope to be respected by others.

我们大可以活成我们自己，活得更本色一点，更真实一些，反正还是会有人喜欢你，有人不喜欢你，但至少你会更喜欢你自己。

We can live as ourselves, a little more authentic, more real. Anyway, some people will like you, some people don't like you, but at least you will like yourself more.

获得真正自由的方法是要学会自我控制。如果情绪总是处于失控状态，就会被感情牵着鼻子走，丧失自由。所以那些精神自由，保持独立思考的人，也正是擅长于控制自己情绪的人。

The way to get real freedom is to learn self-control. If your emotions are always out of control, you will be led by your feelings and lose your freedom. So those who are free in spirit and keep independent thinking are also those who are good at controlling their emotions.

内心强大的人都有三个共性：“不和他人作比较”“不对他人有期待”“不批判他人”。

People with a strong heart have three things in common: "don't compare with others", "don't expect others" and "don't criticize others".