No.61

人生有三种苦：你得不到，所以痛苦；得到了，却不过如此，也会觉得痛苦；轻易地放弃了，后来却发现，原来它在你生命中是那么重要，所以觉得痛苦。既然，得不到、得到了、放弃时都会痛苦，何不把人生的得失看轻一些，保持一颗平常心，痛苦不就会随之而减轻吗？

There are three kinds of pain in life: you can't get it, so it's painful; Get, but only so, will feel pain; Easily give up, but later found that it is so important in your life, so I feel painful. Since there will be pain when you can't get, get and give up, why not take the gains and losses of life lightly and keep a normal heart, and the pain will be alleviated accordingly?

最大的遗憾是连离开都不能当面说清，或许一个拥抱能解决的事情，最后却是没有任何解释的形同陌路。

The biggest regret is that you can't even say it to your face when you leave. Maybe a hug can solve the problem, but in the end, you are a stranger without any explanation.

其实，真正的爱情无关考验，也无关折磨，可是，现实中的我们往往太缺乏安全感，有了自己喜欢的人，就会不停的问自己，他是真心喜欢我吗？他会变心吗？然后，我们会去试探、去考验、去折磨，最后，弄巧成拙。

In fact, true love has nothing to do with testing or torture. However, in reality, we often lack a sense of security. If we have a person we like, we will keep asking ourselves, does he really like me? Will he change his mind? Then, we will try, test, torture, and finally make ourselves self defeating.

面对太多变故和离别想好好珍惜都觉得力不从心。

In the face of too many changes and departures, I feel powerless to cherish them.